Let me make decisions myself

Why do people insist on imparting their (ok, well intentioned) advice? I appreciate all the well-meaning but I am of the firm opinion that these more often than not handicaps people. To the point where they cannot make their own decisions. Please leave me alone. Please let me make my own decisions. If I need advice, I will ask. My pride does not get in the way, honest, I will ask.

If I've made my decision and it's not one that harms anyone, please do not ask why, where, when, how, what. Please accept it. No sarky remarks need to be given either. If I've not made my decision, then please do not keep pushing it.

I pray for God's guidance in all my decisions, and that He will put the right people there to guide me in the right way.

I need to know

I have been wondering for many years now what God has in store for me. I may be blind and deaf as I am still wondering. What is it that God wants me to do? Maybe I don't know how to hear properly. Maybe that's it - I have to learn better there.

I'm getting disillusioned and unmotivated. Before this impacts significantly on my life and also before it becomes ungodly, I really need to know. Should I just leave? Should I do something else? Should I have a different direction? I really don't know. And I really need to know.